Online dating and braces
I did this years ago, and when I met my future husband, I looked at that sheet of paper and realized that he had all the qualities I was looking for, and even more.Right then and there, I knew he was worth seriously considering as a life partner.
Seeing it there in black and white can be very helpful.On the other side of the spectrum, in real life, there is Tom Cruise.Would any woman kick him out of bed because of his ceramic brackets? Use this time as an opportunity to improve other things about yourself, especially if you weren't a dating champion before the braces went on.Have you seen the show "Queer Eye for the Straight Guy"?If not, the premise is: five gay guys invade the life of a hopelessly fashion-blind straight guy and turn him into an enthusiastic and well-groomed metrosexual, often to the drooling delight of their significant other (below is a photo of the "Fab Five").And so he has been, 18 years and two kids later..he's the one who really pushed me to get braces a few years ago!
In fact, nowadays I thank him for marrying me, despite my crooked teeth!
(well, ok, Nicole Kidman kicked him out of bed, but I don't think his braces had anything to do with it...) You are spending major bucks to get your teeth straightened. Think of this as your "transformation time." Here's the main idea: if you look better, you'll feel better; if you feel better, you'll be more confident.
And if you look good and are confident, you are sexy and attractive to other people.
The pages of GQ or Details are a good place to start, but if that's too daunting, go to a high-quality (and/or trendy) men's store in your area and ask a salesperson for ideas.
I know it sounds perilous, but you don't have to actually buy anything, just see what somebody else thinks would look good on you, and think about it. Have you had the exact same haircut for more than 5 years?
(Photo to the left here is Gwen Stefani in metal brackets).