Dating tips for men in college
He was an exceptionally great guy who loved me and treated me like a princess. A few months into the relationship, he thought my friends were a bad influence on me.
At first, he may be quiet and always ready to give you advice when you need it.Almost every woman I know has experienced her share of insecure men.The funniest part of all this is that most women don’t even know they’re actually in a relationship with an insecure man!And before you know it, your sweet and insecure man will learn to control your life by playing the part of the victim.And you’ll never even realize you’re being manipulated and arm twisted till you lose your old happy life and become a woman whose only ambition in life is to keep her man happy and make him feel proud of her.A secure man wouldn’t be offended or threatened if his woman speaks to other guys *unless she’s had a sexual history with that guy*.
But if your man is insecure, chances are, he’ll tell you how lonely and awkward he felt when you were so busy talking and having fun with another guy. They look for ways to pierce your heart and get things done their way.
But yet, they’re not bold enough to speak their mind.
Truthfully though, extremely insecure men have issues, serious issues that they may choose to overlook. So don’t try dating an insecure man with the hope of trying to change him. Signs of insecurity in men One of the biggest signs of insecure men is the lack of trust in the relationship.
[Read: Why does love hurt so much when it goes bad? Insecurity is a deep rooted issue that’s as unique as the guy.
But almost always insecurity is a trait that’s associated with men who have low self esteem.
But as the months start to roll by, you’d see that the advice would start to turn into sulking commands and manipulative pleas to arm twist you into doing what he wants.