Before that, the couple has to take the initiative.Rather than directing the course of the relationship, God wants the couple to grow and learn how to make a commitment.
Most are well intended and contain a nugget of truth. Dating is hard enough without sifting through all this erroneous information, so let's debunk some myths.Whom you married wasn't even up to you most of the time.Falling in love before you got married or engaged is a twentieth–century concept. In college, I had an older professor from Japan whose marriage had been arranged.Dating as a socially accepted means of finding a mate has been around for less than a century.Before that, strict courtship rituals governed the path to marriage.God may, in fact, have a spunky brunette in mind, and he's steering you toward her as you read this.
But the Bible does not promise that God will provide a loving relationship for you while you sit around and do nothing.
But, as in all things, it's best to ask for his guidance.
The Bible promises he will provide that whenever we ask.
Some Christians take a lot of comfort in the idea that God will do the heavy lifting when it comes to dating.
God will tell them if a relationship is right, and God will end it if it's not.
You are destined to be with her, and God will guide you to her." Good luck finding this one in the Bible.